Community Lending & Homebuyer Programs

Director of Community Relations

With more than 20 years of experience in mortgage lending, Veron Gray brings both deep industry knowledge and a genuine passion for helping people move forward with confidence. As Director of Community Relations, she focuses on strengthening connections—between individuals, families, and the resources that support successful homeownership.

Veron understands that buying a home is more than a transaction. It's a major life step, and having the right guidance can make all the difference. She takes pride in helping customers navigate the process clearly, from understanding their options to connecting them with programs that can make homeownership more accessible.

Her work extends beyond individual customers. Veron actively builds relationships with local organizations, housing partners, and community groups to ensure people have access to trusted information and support. Whether it's answering questions, sharing educational resources, or making the right introduction, she's focused on helping people feel informed and supported every step of the way.

At The Equitable Bank, that approach reflects what we believe matters most—being a reliable resource, staying connected to our communities, and helping people achieve their goals with confidence.

705 East Silver Spring Drive, Whitefish Bay, WI 53217  |  2290 North Mayfair Road, Wauwatosa, WI 53226

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Lending Specialist

With 40 years of banking experience—including more than two decades focused on community lending—Gail Milani brings a steady, knowledgeable approach to helping customers navigate home financing. Her focus is simple: understand each customer’s situation and provide clear, thoughtful guidance along the way.

Gail knows that no two homebuying journeys look the same. She takes the time to walk through options, answer questions, and make sure customers feel confident in the decisions they’re making. Whether it’s a first-time homebuyer or someone with past experience, her goal is to make the process feel approachable and manageable from start to finish.

A large part of Gail’s work has centered around helping first-time buyers take that first step into homeownership. She finds real value in seeing individuals and families reach that milestone—and in knowing they had the support and information they needed to get there.

At The Equitable Bank, Gail’s approach reflects what matters most—taking the time to get it right, keeping things clear, and helping customers move forward with confidence.

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Community Lending Officer

With more than 25 years of experience in housing counseling, financial education, and mortgage lending, Tamara Castle is passionate about helping first-time homebuyers achieve their dream of homeownership. Her background gives her a unique perspective on the challenges many buyers face and the resources available to help them succeed.

Tamara believes that education is one of the most important parts of the homebuying journey. She takes pride in helping customers understand their options, navigate the lending process, and connect with programs that can make homeownership more accessible, including down payment assistance and first-time homebuyer resources.

Her commitment extends beyond the loan process. Through her involvement with Take Root Milwaukee and local homebuyer education initiatives, Tamara works alongside community partners to help individuals and families build a stronger financial future through sustainable homeownership.

At The Equitable Bank, Tamara is focused on helping customers feel informed, supported, and confident every step of the way.

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